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The Dalai Lama presents a vision of women’s role in society that is rooted in both spiritual principle and ethical concern. He consistently affirms that women and men share equal capacity for intelligence, leadership, and spiritual realization, and that any form of discrimination based on gender is socially harmful and spiritually unwarranted. From this perspective, gender equality in education, employment, and public decision‑making is not merely a social reform, but an expression of basic human rights and the Buddhist understanding that all beings possess the same potential for enlightenment. His stance suggests that a just society must actively remove barriers that prevent women from realizing their full potential in every sphere of life.
At the same time, he often highlights qualities traditionally associated with the feminine—such as compassion, nurturing, and sensitivity—as urgently needed in the wider world. He has suggested that many of humanity’s conflicts arise from an excess of aggressive, domineering tendencies, and that a greater presence of caring, empathetic “female” energy in leadership could foster more peaceful and humane societies. This does not imply that such qualities belong exclusively to women, but rather that women’s participation in leadership can help rebalance the emotional and ethical tone of public life. In this way, the Dalai Lama’s reflections on gender are also a meditation on the inner qualities that should guide collective decision‑making.
His support for women extends deeply into the religious domain. He has repeatedly affirmed that there is no doctrinal barrier to a female Dalai Lama and has stated that, if the institution continues, a future Dalai Lama could be a woman, provided she is recognized as the genuine reincarnation and is competent in her role. More broadly, he encourages women to become scholars, teachers, and spiritual leaders, and he has advocated for the restoration and strengthening of full ordination for Buddhist nuns. By working to re‑establish and elevate the bhikshuni lineage, he signals that the monastic and spiritual life should be equally open to women, both in principle and in institutional practice.
Underlying these positions is a moral framework grounded in compassion and non‑discrimination. The Dalai Lama interprets gender equality as a natural outflow of karuṇā, the cultivated wish to alleviate the suffering of all beings without bias. When women are denied education, leadership, or religious authority, not only are their individual lives constrained, but society as a whole is deprived of wisdom and compassion that could otherwise be brought to bear on collective problems. His view suggests that expanding women’s roles in public, political, and spiritual life is not merely a concession to modernity, but a necessary step toward a more balanced and compassionate human community.