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Confucius’ teaching turns again and again to the cultivation of inner virtue as the basis for outer harmony. At its heart stands *ren*—humaneness or benevolence—an attitude of compassion, empathy, and goodwill that undergirds all ethical conduct. This spirit is expressed in the maxim, “Do not impose on others what you do not wish for yourself,” a call to constant self-reflection in dealings with others. Closely linked is *yi*, righteousness, which demands doing what is morally right rather than what is merely convenient or profitable. Together, *ren* and *yi* form an inner compass, orienting the seeker toward goodness even when circumstances are difficult.
To give this inner virtue a stable form in the world, Confucius emphasized *li*, ritual propriety and proper conduct. *Li* includes formal ceremonies, everyday etiquette, and the subtle art of behaving appropriately according to one’s role and the situation at hand. It is not empty formality but a way of aligning outward behavior with inward moral intention, so that respect, reverence, and gratitude are made visible. Within this framework, *xiao*, filial piety, becomes foundational: deep respect, care, and obedience toward parents and ancestors, extending outward to loyalty toward family and superiors. From such ordered relationships, social harmony is said to arise.
The figure who embodies these virtues is the *junzi*, the “exemplary person” or noble character. This person is defined not by birth but by moral cultivation, striving to embody *ren*, *li*, *yi*, and wisdom (*zhi*). Through continuous learning, reflection, and self-discipline, the *junzi* becomes a living standard for others, demonstrating that ethical refinement is a lifelong path. Education, in this vision, is not merely the acquisition of knowledge but the shaping of character, open in principle to anyone willing to undertake the work of self-cultivation.
Confucius also taught that social order depends on clarity in roles and language, a principle known as the rectification of names (*zhengming*). Titles and words should match the reality of a person’s conduct; a ruler should truly act as a ruler, a parent as a parent, a friend as a friend. When each role is rightly understood and faithfully enacted—within relationships such as ruler–subject, parent–child, husband–wife, elder–younger, and friend–friend—society moves toward harmony rather than chaos. On this basis, governance itself should rest on virtue: rulers lead best by moral example, not by coercion, so that the people are naturally inclined to follow.