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How do I know if Self-Inquiry is working for me?

Subtle shifts often point the way. Thoughts that used to gallop off into worry begin to slow, like a restless horse finally finding a pasture to graze. Daily life takes on a touch more softness: dishes washed, emails answered, and even traffic jams feel less like an affront and more like another moment to notice the breath.

Moments of surprise—that sudden pause when the “you” watching the mind arises—feel like catching a wink from reality itself. It’s as if the spotlight turns inward, revealing the background hum beneath all the mental chatter. That hum grows steadier, while the noise of old stories and anxieties drifts away, much like the way summer storms clear the air.

Everyday stresses no longer pack the punch they used to. Missing a train or hearing unexpected feedback at work triggers a breath rather than a meltdown. A quality of ease starts to infuse decisions that once felt heavy, and intuition nudges more often than a to-do list.

Sleep can become a sweeter neighbor, with dreams that aren’t as tangled in yesterday’s worries. Waking up feels less like dragging a sack of thoughts across the floor and more like stretching into a fresh moment.

Compassion bubbles up spontaneously—toward friends, strangers, even that grumpy barista. In a world still dazzled by AI breakthroughs at recent tech expos, this human-to-human warmth stands out like a lighthouse.

Clarity dawns in unexpected corners. Maybe a creative spark lights up during a routine task, or a conversation that once felt stuck flows with new ease. The veil between “observer” and “observed” seems thinner, and that gap itself becomes a cozy space rather than an abyss.

If these little changes are showing up—often without fanfare—it’s a fair bet the Direct Path of self-inquiry is doing its work. No grand fireworks are needed; the steady glow of awareness is signal enough.